Wednesday, June 1, 2016

My Little Angels Online Shop

Please be informed that My Little Angels Online Shop fan page (https://www.facebook.com/mylittleangelsonlineshop) was hacked last night. An account where I created and maintained for more than 4 years.

Truly, I don't know what happened when suddenly I can no longer login and update its status. I tried to search it online, but it no longer exist.
All the while, I need to start all over again, where all the efforts I had worked in years to maintain its existence and ensures its timely updates were all gone; including product photos, product reviews and communication response with my personal friends, online buyers, inquirers and reseller were all completely lost - 100%.
Ever since I had created My Little Angels Online Shop fan page, I never paid any online ads to promote it in order to generate more likes as fast as possible. For in my heart, I personally wanted to prove that its existence are made in test of time, out of integrity and sincerity that I am a LEGIT SELLER - ensuring that every order placed and payments made are timely shipped in good condition and will be received in due time by my customers.
In years, it had reached almost 2,400 likers, quitely far from other facebook page who can afford to pay online ads. But I am proud to say that these numbers were reached mostly from people whom I personally don't know, clicks from friendly inquirers and customers with new and repeat orders.
For more than 3 years, My Little Angels Online Shop is a source of God's provision to my family. It's been our bread and butter - where I cried much; I prayed harder and harder each day, gained new friends and reseller from time to time, exerted much effort to improve my marketing and communication skills and works longer as possible. But despite all the difficulties, I give thanks and praise God as He entrusted me to manage it.
Now that I need to start all over again, I pray that I can work it out as fast as I can, to keep timely updates and gladly response with all the queries that I may receive out of God's grace.
I may not know the reason now, but in His time, His good purpose will be revealed. For He knows what's best for me. 



I strongly prayed that whatever He wants me to be, He will lead the way as I walk in faith. Please Lord, be my Great Provider, take away all the worries I have inside of me so I can raise well the 2 kids You entrusted to me. For my prayers are not for myself but to be blessed by You, to be a blessings to others.
Please keep be posted with the new fan page I just created now, where I used the same name and cover photo but has now a new link page


Please accept my invites to like this page, thank you very much in advance. May God bless us all much more than we ask for.
Have a nice day ahead of us. Today maybe a tough time as within our capabilities but we have bigger GOD who can solve bigger problems. TRUST and OBEY, HOLD ON with our LORD JESUS CHRIST.


To God be all the glory, honor and praise. God bless us all

Monday, April 25, 2016

My Dream House

In one of my QUITE time, somehow God speaks to me to put in writing what I am struggling now. I am hesitant to write about it because its very personal that online world may read it sooner or later. 

My prayer is that our Heavenly Father help me how to start this story. Please open my heart and mind as You lead me to make this post possible. Please be the author of my life, out of my wickedness, pick me up to be your faithful servant. To You alone be all the glory, honor and praise.

It was May 2010 when I decided to apply for housing loan through HDMF or commonly known Pag-Ibig for the shelter of my children. My thinking then was in case of my death, I am sure that they have secured place to live in. It is a 2-storey house, simple, bare type, 48 sqm lot area, good enough for our family. Though I am working at Santo Tomas, Batangas then, I prefer to get unit at Richmond Park Townhomes located at General Trias, Cavite, hoping in the future, I can stay near with my family.

For more than 3 years I am consistently paying my monthly amortization but year 2012 we went through financial crisis in the family. By early 2013, I totally stopped to pay my amortization due to heavy reason that needs priority over our house. It was a big decision to stop the payment but much as I want to continue, I don’t have fund to release. Truly, there are situation in life where we need to weigh what is much more important between life and property.




By the grace of God our family went back to Cavite by April 2014. Since there were no notice of foreclosure from HDMF, we decided to live at our house from Batangas. I went to HDMF Office to inquire about possible continuation of my amortization and necessary payment for the penalty. But HDMF personnel told me that I can no longer do it since my payment lapsed over a year. He told me to wait until HDMF issue offer to purchase where I am the priority to get the house again.

Since then, I strongly prayed that God allowed us to live at that place, to protect us as we start the business at Cavite. I even prayed for house improvement and God bless me all the way until it’s completely done. Truly, up to this moment as I look around at every corner of our house, I give thanks and praise to our Almighty, for I know that it was all His provision that sustain the expenses. 

Above all, I just felt that He give our house a day to day shield from HDMF for I knew anytime they can request us to move out. I still keep on praying that our Lord bless me to save some money that I can pay to HDMF in case notice will come.









Last April 5, 2016, my husband received a letter from HDMF, unexpectedly it was an Invitation to Purchase. As stated in the letter, we are required to go to HDMF Mandaluyong office within 15 days to discuss details of such letter. Failure to do so would mean we are no longer interested for the recovery of the property and should vacate it at the soonest possible time.

Last April 7, we went to HDMF Mandaluyong to discuss such concern. If I am interested to recover the property, I need to pay Php1000 for the Reservation Fee within 15 days. The cost of property is almost Php700,000 and there are 3 options to settle the total amount due
  • Cash – need to fully pay Php700K within 30 days
  • Installment – payable in 1 year with 12% interest – an equal monthly payment of around Php65K+ for 12 months. Monthly amortization will start a month after the payment of reservation fee
  • Housing Loan – can be applied by direct family member living with the same address, must be an active HDMF member. Can be husband, children, siblings whose living in the same house with proof of residency at property address. Subject for Background Check Investigation (CI).

With the given options above, immediately we knew that:
  • Option #1 is impossible for us, we don’t have that amount of money. We cannot produce such amount within 30 days.
  • Option #2 is truly not affordable and much as I want to commit the payment, we are not earning that much to pay Php65,000 monthly for house mortgage alone excluding our day to day expenses for living and education of my children.
  • Option #3 is a No, No for us since my husband is not employed, we are just working together with our online shop to survive our day to day living. He don’t have proof of income to present himself as employed or self-employed. Bank accounts use for payment on online orders are under my name.

Since that day forward, it’s been a sleepless nights, at times I skip meals spending time crying, uncounted days full of worries, thinking for solution to solve the problem.

Honestly, God bless us with some on hand stocks to roll-over every now and then.  We may have small amount of savings for the education of my children. But to lessen the debt at HDMF, we had decided to close our bank accounts both for kids and the capital for business.  But knowing that everything will be withdraw, I don't have extra fund to replenish our stocks. Should our stocks sold out, there will be no source of fund for our day to day living. I even seek my sister’s assistance that may lend to her through personal loan at her company amounting to Php200,000.00.

To work hard for the possible solution, we lay down options based on human thinking
  1. To sell the property including furniture, fixtures and appliance inside the house. I  will just ask for 350k as initial down payment so I can fully pay the necessary charges. Upon full payment, HDMF will issue Certification of full payment the same day and Lot Title after 30 days. I posted it online but inquirer did not pursue the interest to buy.
  2. To offer the house for rent including furniture, fixtures and appliances with one month advance and 2 month deposit for the security of the property. Same as above, there are inquirers but not yet materialize on our needed time frame.
  3. I asked financial assistance to my father but withdrawal of his mutual fund is not timing, NAVPS is very low at this moment
  4. My father offered to sell his brand new tricycle with back to back body to add up some money. But just the same, price offer is so much lower than his investment. We rather keep it and use for earning opportunity instead of selling it at loss. After all, it is not his problem, its mine, I need to find solution by myself without disturbing others.
  5. My husband ask assistance from her sister but they don’t have extra money to lend with us
  6. I decided to sell old stuff we no longer use and/or much needed – only few were sold, others remained for sale
  7. I will work hard with my online shop to gain revenue and collections that may add up the needed amount, but due to increase in competition online, monthly sales were getting lower as before
Unfortunately, solutions laid down to solve the problem are all not working despite my eagerness to pursue them. Much as I want to save the property, needed resources are not provided the way I hope it will be. I felt so discouraged, admitting I am not capable to save it. You knew the feeling of frustration that though I work hard, I gained nothing and seems that He keeps on silent in answering my prayers.

Last April 20, we went again to HDMF Mandaluyong to pay for the reservation fee and need to come back by April 29 to pay the initial down payment in order to lessen the principal loan and its interest. More or less, we can only collect Php300,000 as down payment and approximately Php400,000 will be the remaining balance subject for 1 year payment. 

Based on HDMF computation it will be around Php35,600 per month for 12 months + Php6,800 monthly payment to my sister loan for 3 years. House mortgage expense of Php43,200 per month is a huge amount I am sure I am not capable to pay.

Only 2 days from today before April 29 but our fund still not enough to pay the target initial down payment. In this darkness moment, I can only look above and pray so hard that God will open the gate of heaven to shower His blessings upon me. I can only depend on His will, grace and provision – every minute of my life, lifting up to Him all the worries I have. I don’t know where to go and which way to turn, may God clear all the way and be with me in every way.

I am still loss and confused, thinking how this problem might be solve. For I humble myself, I am weak, I need Him in every step of my life. It is only by His grace and mercy where unsolved problem will have a better solution. He can control all the out of control situations that I am in right now and He can provides for everything. Only by His mighty hands, everything will be on its proper place, on His perfect time.

As I face this life struggle, I promise to share its progress thru comments on this post. I want to share it not to boast for anything, but to give testimony of God’s works in my life. Giving thanks and praise for all His timely provision and blessings of good health and family.

As I lift all my worries up above, I want to keep a promise just as Jacob vow to God. I will be thankful for every little or more He give upon me and promise to be a faithful steward for His ministry. I knew He don’t need money from my tithes and offerings for He owns everything. But what He need is my heart and my life, making sure that I don’t have other gods except Him. As I surrender my life to Him, dear Lord, please take charge, Thy will be done.

Then Jacob made a vow, saying, “If God will be with me and will keep me in this way that I go, and will give me bread to eat and clothing to wear, so that I come again to my father's house in peace, then the Lord shall be my God, and this stone, which I have set up for a pillar, shall be God's house. And of all that you give me I will give a full tenth to you.”




I may not understand the current situation, but I want to keep my hope and faith with our Lord for He has better plan for me and my family. When there's no way to run to, look up -  God will surely make a way, where there seems to be no way.





Despite the financial problem, I thank God for my family that continue to extend their help in working out for the solution. I praise God for all the buyers online and offline that keeps their trust with My Little Angels Online Shop, thank you so much for your help in our financial struggles. Truly, God bless you to be a blessings to my family. May God continue to shower His blessing upon us.

Thank you so much to CCF sermon videos that I used to watch daily online, these serve as my personal guidance on everyday life. Thank you for your encouragement to read the Bible everyday in order to have personal relationship with our Lord Jesus Christ. I am a working progress and far way to go; every encounter with Him is truly such a big blessings. May God continue to give you wisdom, strength and courage in sharing God's word all over the world. I am praying that I may also come and join with your service at CCF Main to actually feel God's blessing in worship.

To God alone be all the glory, honor and praise. 

Friday, October 30, 2015

Ang Pera na Hindi Bitin

ANG PERA NA HINDI BITIN
Book Review: Ang Pera na Hindi Bitin by Ardy Roberto

Good day! 
I bought this pocket size book at National Bookstore for only Php50, it is worth reading that will surely enlighten many the way it did to me. It is a practical financial freedom book that provides guidance on how to manage money based on Bible scriptures. With the book title itself, it will surely caught your attention to grab one copy for yourself or family and friends.

Bitin ba lagi ang pera mo? Lagi bang kulang ang sweldo o allowance mo?
Grabe ang tanong na yan, sapul na sapul ako dyan, paano nya kaya nalaman? 
Nakakapagod mag-isip ng sagot sa mga tanong ko na “possible ba magkaroon ng perang hindi bitin ang ordinaryong tao katulad ko” at “paano nga ba hindi mabibitin ang pera sa katulad ko na walang regular na trabaho?”. Dahil sa mahabang taon ang takot ko ay kung “paano nga kaya makakapagtapos ng pag-aaral ang mga anak ko” at “paano nga kaya ako sa pagtanda ko?”; wala naman ako pera nakatabi o retirement plan na puede ko makuha. hay! naku ang buhay nga naman…

This book shared the 7 ways to manage your money so God will entrust us with more, its so amazing to know that all of the guidelines specified here are all written in the Bible. It will surely open your mind what the Bible tells about keys on successful money management.

Sabay-sabay natin subukan at gawin para di mabitin ang pera natin.

1.    GIVE
Honor the Lord and give back with a joyful heart. Tithing is the voluntary giving of 10% of your income to the Lord through a church that you belong or are blessed by. Bringing back to the Lord and honoring Him is a hard thing to do if you haven’t heard about and don’t believe in God’s promises in the Bible.

I just learned that before you "pay yourself first" you should "pay" or honor the Lord by giving Him the "first fruits" or a portion of your earnings.

I had watched numerous testimonies shared by ordinary people of how God works His promises on their lives through CCF service videos. I also read a dozen of financial freedom books and had found out that these successful and rich men authors are all faithful stewards. 




God cares about how we manage money, we need to be a faithful steward to what Lord had entrusted to us. Otherwise, He will take away them until we prove trustworthy with the money, talent, time and opportunities that remain with us. We are only stewards or managers of the money – big or small – that He has given to us.


Alam ko na mahirap ang buhay, sobrang hirap kumita ng pera. Naisip ko na yun mga regular na trabaho ay kinakapos pa, paano pa kaya kung walang regular na trabaho? Paano magagawa ang responsibilidad bilang magulang? Siguro nga makakaya ko magtiis pero paano nga ba sasabihin sa mga anak na “Magtiis muna kayo kasi wala tayong ganito at wala din ganoon”?.

I knew that my effort wouldn't be enough, no matter how I work hard. I may earn much but my pocket seems had a hole where its contents are easily passed through. Alam mo yun kung minsan meron ka inaasahan pera padating bago bigla naman nagkaroon ang aberya - biglang naubos na lang na parang dumaan lang. Nakakapagod mag-isip kung paano nga ba hindi magiging bitin ang pera hawak ko.

It's always been my daily struggles, managing an online shop was not easy as 1-2-3, I have encountered lot of bogus buyers both online and offline - so silly to know how they spend their time doing unkind deeds towards others - may God touch their hearts and minds so they will stop doing so. But despite the challenges, I am so much thankful and grateful for everything He has given to me and my family. Truly, everything is under His control, for with Him all things are possible.

Through reading I found out that one secrets of rich and successful people is by faithfully and obediently bringing back the tenth or more of their earnings to His ministry. We cannot deny the fact that we all want to be like them. For with all their proudest means they shared that in FAITH through God's grace  they receive and continuously enjoying abundant life that includes financial peace of mind by Honoring God first.

I want to try applying same approach. I decided to live by faith, praying for God's grace that He will bless me through My Little Angels Online Shop. As soon as I receive the payment from our buyers, I set aside the 10% as my tithes then send it to CBN ASIA through MLHULLIER on a weekly basis. I knew I need to learn more before I can become one of His steward - but little by little I am moving forward to be one. Never try to spend your tithes for anything else - I had read and listen to its effect - we can learn from other's mistakes

Hindi ko namamalayan, matagal-tagal na din pala, pero mula noon, hindi Siya nagkulang, biyaya Nya ay laging sapatSubukan mo din, huwag ka matakot, sigurado ako walang mawawala sa iyo. Magbigay ka man ng 10%, meron ka pa natirang 90%, dahil ang lahat-lahat ay nagmula sa Kanya, kayang-kaya Nya tayo bigyan ng higit sa inaakala natin. 


SHARE
The reason of our existence is definitely our families. We work hard not for ourselves to enjoy life and explore the world. Our personal objectives is to give our children a better future they deserves and to honor our parents as well. Many times we spend less for ourselves, it’s difficult to release extra cash for our own wants, yet we can give much to our family. 

Above from our family, we have the responsibility to share our blessings to others. Meeting needs beyond our own 


As God give His promises to generous givers

 
  

God has also message to takers 

   As I ready this passage, I just realized that we have a CHOICE of how to live our life - to be a GIVER or a TAKER?

As we face the journey of FAITHFUL STEWARDSHIP, we will understand why we spend less for ourselves but we can easily share more to others, for God use us as an instrument to be a blessings to others.
2    SAVE
As we learn the scriptural principles of using money, we need to demonstrate the value of making and following a budget. To identify what are the needs of our family before our wants. Discipline in following the budget plan and regular review of actual spending is a must. Admittedly, application of this principle is truly difficult, saving is much easier said than done. It requires so much effort and discipline to manage wisely.

After paying the tithes and necessary living expenses, we need to decide on how to properly keep the remaining money we have. Financial advisers share the steps to financial success, make each step fully done before go on to the next step...
  1. Build Emergency fund - it should be continuously done - do not spend it unless its for emergency
  2. Pay off all debt - if u cannot fully settle them all, work it out gradually, little by little debt re-payment will do until its becomes fully settled
  3. Finish saving an Emergency Fund that will cover the 3-6 months expenses
  4. Invest 15% of household income to Retirement Plan
  5. Save money for children to attend college
  6. Built wealth through investing and give like you never did before
As parents we have the responsibility to teach our children about finances. At the early age of my children, I am strongly forcing them to separate 10% for tithes, save 20% and spend only 70% of their received allowances on a weekly basis. I keep on praying that they will understand my eagerness to teach them the value of saving (which I never knew before). I keep on telling them my personal mistakes and failures in handling money and how I want their lives be different to mine. I remember the difficulty when we started it last June 2015, but I'm glad that they can now do it on their own.

Financial experts recommend the 20-20 saving retirement formula: Save 20% of your income 20 years before you retire. Next year I will be turning 40, it's a number I cannot deny but I need to face the challenge to start saving for my retirement.

The Bible teaches us the value of saving, to be ready for the coming days. These are lessons that I never learned while I was working, but thanks be to God for He allows me to understand what REAL LIFE is. It doesn’t matter how much is our earnings today, what valuable most is how much we can save out of our earnings.




It is always my prayers that our Lord bless me with works to do to sustain the needs of my children - to give them foods to eat, shelter to live, good education for their future and leave them something to start their own. I know it will be one step at a time work to do, hopefully achieve them all - just before my time ends.



3.    GET OUT OF DEBT AND STOP BORROWING
Going into debt is generally not a good idea due to its accumulating interests. I had read it many times in financial freedoms book I purchased and blog post online. Honestly, I myself are still on my way working out towards settling my debts – little by little. God knows the desire of my heart and I keep on praying that in His perfect time, everything will be fully settled –to attain a debt-free life.




4.    LIVE SIMPLY
Keep on living a simple life to control our spending. Many people including me are fallen easily into the trap of increasing our purchases if we have some extra cash on hand. We get tempted to increase our spending knowing what tomorrow may bring is not a promise.


5.    MAGSIPAG, MAG-NEGOSYO
Many times I asked myself, why should I need to work hard for my family? I am a wife and a mother, my husband is responsible to work hard and provide for the needs of our family. But as I read this book, I found out what the Bible says about “A Wife of Noble Character” written at Proverbs 31:10-31.

Now I knew the answer to my sentiments, for being a wife is not limited to being a submissive homebody whose sole purpose in life is to raise children and do all the house chores, we can do much for our family.

Noble wife is a shrewd and profiting businesswoman.                  
A woman profits from her skills (19), selective buying of imported raw materials (13), wise trading (24), hard work (15, 17, 27), managing of servants (15, 26) and money sense (18). As an effective businesswoman, this wife has a successful business plan. She creates her own wealth, not by taking advantage of the poor, but out of her smart choices and hard work.

Her noble use of money. 
Part of what makes this virtuous wife so praiseworthy is what she does with her wealth. She provides for her family and servants, but then she helps the poor and needy out of her excess. Her wise use of time and money enables her to be charitable and generous.



Let’s us all work hard for God expects us to work so we can provide for our own needs and not unnecessarily burden others.

Naalala ko lang ang laging sinasabi ng Nanay ko noon, "kung gusto mo kumain ng masarap, kailangan mo mag-trabaho" - dahil ang lahat ng bagay ay pinagta-trabahuhan. Ngayon na magulang na ako, pinipilit ko din ipaunawa ito sa mga anak ko. Sana maintindihan nila na walang mabubuhay sa maghapon pagiging tambay, panonood ng tv at paglalaro ng cellphone or gadgets - dahil ang lahat ay may bayad - walang libre.... Lord please help me to make them understand....

Do not be lazy...




But don’t overdo things. Enjoy the presence of our family, over than money, they are much valuable. After all, God will provides everything that we need.

 Do things the right way and you’ll be blessed




6.    MAG-INVEST
Do not invest with scams scheme that promise 5% interest per month. The lesson is “If it’s too good to be true, it probably is” Don’t let greed or the desire for fast money cloud your judgment.



There's a lot of financial freedom books available online and offline that will teach us how to invest on real estates, mutual funds, stocks market, franchising or direct selling distributorship. Invest to what is appropriate to your time, capital and skills. For these will bring us to a different kinds of investment that will enrich not just our pocket but our life in general.


7.    EDUCATE YOURSELF
“Rich people educates themselves more than they entertain themselves. Poor people entertain themselves more than they educate themselves” by Mr. Chinkee Tan.

Invest in increasing your intellectual capital –your knowledge and skills to widen your potentials. Keep on reading good educational materials, attend live training and/or watch videos online about money management. Wise men never loose works to do and/or earning opportunities to survive.

As we face our day to day struggles, let's make our life choices based on the Word of God and not merely from our best thinking. Through the ages, the wisdom found in God's Word has been tested, true and timeless. We need to obey His word and watch to see how God confirm His wisdom in our life - for in time, it will validate the wisdom of our choices. 
 

As the author said, applying all the principles and strategies given by this book will be easy once they become a habit. The hardest step is to get started, we have fear that shortage of money will never be possible


But more than money we can gain, let's count our blessings - we have so much to be grateful and remain humble.

After all, God will supply all our needs - not our wants. Live a simple life as possible

Thank you and May God bless us all much more than we ask for